It’s easy to talk about wanting to change your life, but actually doing it? That’s the hard part. Maybe you know something needs to shift, or you feel stuck in a cycle that doesn’t work anymore, but finding the motivation to take that first step can feel impossible. The truth is, motivation rarely drops out…
Personal Growth
How To Trust Yourself Even When The Right Thing Feels Awful
Doing the right thing doesn’t always feel good—in fact, sometimes it feels completely awful. Walking away from something familiar, saying no when you used to say yes, choosing yourself instead of keeping the peace—it can leave you full of doubt even when you know, deep down, it’s what needed to happen. Trusting yourself in those…
Why Feeling “Stuck” Is Sometimes Exactly What You Need to Move Forward
Feeling stuck in life isn’t necessarily pleasant, but it definitely gets a bad reputation, and unfairly so. It’s frustrating, disorienting, and usually makes you question everything about your direction, sure. However, what if being stuck isn’t a sign of failure—just a sign that something deeper is changing for the better? Sometimes it’s not that you’re…
How To Stop Using ‘Self-Help’ To Avoid The Real Work
Self-help has its place—a good book or podcast can definitely inspire new ways of thinking. That being said, sometimes, the self-improvement cycle becomes a comfort zone of its own—a way to feel like you’re growing without actually making hard, real-life changes. If you find yourself consuming all the right content but still feeling stuck, it…
Why You Keep Feeling Like The Problem (Even When You’re Not)
There’s nothing worse than constantly feeling like you’re doing something wrong in life, no matter the situation. It’s not always easy to explain. You walk away from conversations feeling like you said the wrong thing. You replay moments in your head, wondering if you came off too blunt, too emotional, too awkward. Even when nothing…
How The Push To ‘Be The Bigger Person’ Can Stifle Your Real Emotions
It sounds noble, choosing calm over conflict, maturity over reaction. However, when you’re constantly told to “be the bigger person,” it often ends up being less about wisdom and more about silence. You start to wonder if your feelings are too much, if your anger is unreasonable, or if you’re selfish for wanting fairness. The…
The Quiet Cost Of Always Trying To Be Easier To Love
There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be loved—that’s just human. However, when that turns into constantly adjusting who you are, toning things down, or avoiding anything that might make someone uncomfortable, you start losing parts of yourself in the process. The need to be easy, agreeable, or low-maintenance might feel safe at first, but it…
Why It’s Totally Fine To Not Have Everything Figured Out Right Now
There’s a weird pressure in the air to have your whole life mapped out—career nailed, relationships thriving, purpose discovered. Of course, the truth is, most people are winging it more than they let on. Life isn’t a straight line, and clarity rarely shows up on schedule. If you’re feeling behind, uncertain, or like you missed…
How To Open Up Emotionally Without Feeling Exposed
Opening up emotionally doesn’t have to feel like handing someone a weapon. It’s possible to share what you’re feeling without losing your footing or bracing for judgement. The key isn’t to share everything all at once; it’s to be thoughtful, intentional, and grounded as you do it. When you approach vulnerability with care instead of…
How To Handle A Tough Conversation With A Co-Worker Without Spiralling
Dealing with conflict at work is uncomfortable, even for the most confident people. Whether it’s addressing tension, pushing back, or bringing up something that needs to change, tough conversations can easily leave you flustered or overthinking for days. Thankfully, it doesn’t have to spiral. Here are some simple, straightforward ways to approach those moments calmly,…