Failure hits harder than most people admit, and it’s definitely one of the worst feelings you can experience. It doesn’t matter if you missed a deadline, tanked a relationship, or just woke up wondering what the hell you’re even doing with your life—it all lands the same. And even though everyone goes through it, it…
Personal Growth
Why You Don’t Have To ‘Find Your Purpose’ To Live A Meaningful Life
Finding your purpose is the advice that’s often thrown around, particularly in self-help circles, like it’s the holy grail of a meaningful life. The idea that once you find that one big thing, everything will click into place, and you’ll be fulfilled forever. But what if that’s not the case? What if the pressure to…
How To Stop Feeling Like You’re Falling Behind In Life (And Why You’re Not)
It’s way too easy to feel like you’re falling behind in life these days. Whether it’s seeing friends achieve big things, constantly hearing about the latest success stories on social media, or simply feeling like you’re not quite where you thought you’d be at a certain age, the pressure starts to pile up pretty quickly….
Why The Pressure To “Be Your Best Self” Can Actually Set You Back
The constant, almost overwhelming message that we need to be our best selves is everywhere. Whether it’s on social media, in self-help books, or through well-meaning friends, there’s this subtle, yet persistent idea that we’re meant to be constantly improving. The narrative is clear: to be happy, successful, and fulfilled, we have to be the…
Can Faking It ‘Til You Make It Really Help You Feel Happier In Life?
The phrase “fake it ‘til you make it” is a common piece of advice you’ve probably heard at some point in life. It’s one of those mantras that sounds simple, but it’s often met with scepticism. After all, can pretending to feel happy actually help you feel happier? It might seem like a clever way…
Why ‘Having It All’ Is Overrated And Bad For Your Mental Health
“Having it all” is the dream that’s been sold to us for years. It’s all about the idea that we can have the perfect career, relationship, family, health, and social life, all while looking fabulous and staying on top of it all. It sounds like the ultimate goal, doesn’t it? But here’s the truth: chasing…
The Problem With ‘Life Coaches’—And Why They’re Major Scammers
Life coaches are everywhere these days. You’ve probably seen them pop up on social media, giving advice on how to “level up,” “manifest success,” or “unlock your potential.” They’re there in your inbox with their promises of life-changing transformations, ready to guide you to a life of wealth, happiness, and personal fulfilment. Sounds tempting, right?…
Real Ways To Turn Failure Into Personal Growth Opportunities
Failure is something we all face at some point, but knowing that doesn’t really make it any easier to deal with. Whether it’s a failed project, a goal you didn’t hit, or a mistake you made that you can’t stop thinking about, striking out has a way of making you feel stuck. The key to…
How To Celebrate Your Wins Without Feeling Like A Fraud
You’ve just hit a major milestone — maybe you’ve achieved something at work, smashed a personal goal, or received recognition for something you’ve been working hard at. And yet, as you feel the wave of accomplishment, there’s a nagging feeling creeping in: imposter syndrome. Instead of being thrilled about your success, you start thinking, “Did…
How To ‘Be Yourself’ When You Don’t Even Know What That Means
“Just be yourself” is pretty standard advice, but what if you don’t really know who that is? What if the idea of being authentic feels like a big, vague concept that’s easier said than done? It’s something we hear all the time, but when you’ve been caught up in expectations, comparison, or just figuring out…